Planning For Forever

Wedding planning can be incredibly overwhelming, guest lists, color palettes, venues, invitations, and flowers. But what if we told you that one of the most important parts of wedding prep actually doesn't involve any of that? This week on 52 Till I Do, we’re thrilled to welcome a very special guest, Tonia Koss, the founder of Preaisle Commitment Conversations. Because a beautiful wedding is wonderful, but a strong, healthy marriage? That’s the real goal.

What is marriage coaching? 

Marriage coaching is a proactive, present-focused way to strengthen your relationship with your partner. Instead of waiting for conflict or crisis, coaching helps couples build better communication, manage expectations, and explore their shared values. Tonia describes it as a sacred space for growth, not therapy, not fixing, but intentional preparation for everything that comes after the big day. 

What are some benefits of marriage coaching? 

Marriage coaching offers couples the chance to feel more emotionally aligned as they approach their wedding, and better equipped for the ups and downs of life together. It creates space to talk through topics that rarely make the wedding checklist, like how you'll handle conflict, divide responsibilities, or envision your future family. Even just a few sessions can help lay a stronger, more intentional foundation for you and your loved ones' marriage.

Common Questions 

What topics do couples usually focus on during coaching sessions?

Everything from finances, communication styles, intimacy, in-law dynamics, to how to fight fair.

What if my partner is hesitant?

Tonia suggests framing it as a gift, not a fix. Emphasize the desire to grow stronger together, and let the process speak for itself.

“We’re really bad at conflict. Can a coach help?”

Definitely. Coaching helps you learn safe, non-blaming ways to communicate and de-escalate tension before it spirals.

“We’re running out of time before the wedding. Is this still worth it?”

Even a few sessions can make a huge difference and be a huge help. It’s not about perfection, it’s about your intention.

Final Thoughts

In a world that is hyper-focused on the big day, this is your reminder to make space for the everyday that follows. Preparing for marriage isn’t about expecting perfection, it’s about building resilience, respect, and true joy in your future with one another! 

For more tips and tricks, tune into the full episode of 52 ‘Til I Do on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

Have more marriage coaching related questions? Send us a message at hello@marryment.com or get in touch on our social media—we love helping couples navigate this part of wedding planning! Be sure to connect with Tonia Koss, too! 

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