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On this week’s episode of 52 'Til I Do, we sat down with Neil Bloom of Future Memory Media to talk all things wedding videography. From what details to share in advance to the must-have shots you don’t want to miss, Neil shares insider tips that will help you get the most out of your wedding film. We walk through everything you need to prep your videographer, from your timeline and venue logistics to special traditions and personal touches - so your memories are captured exactly the way you envision them!
Make sure to let them know if there will be any surprises during the day! Your videographer wants to capture every moment, and the only way they can be fully ready is if they know what’s coming. Whether it’s a surprise dance, a gift exchange, a special entrance, or anything you don’t want missed, tell them ahead of time. This helps them plan their angles, timing, and equipment so they can film the moment exactly as it unfolds.
Once you’ve created your timeline for your big day, there are a few key details you’ll want to add to keep everything running smoothly (especially when it comes to family photos!).
These can take much longer than expected, and the best way to stay organized is simple: make a list. Write out every combination of people you want included in your photos and share that list with your photographer and videographer. Just as important, make sure the people in those photos know ahead of time.
Whether you send a group text or ask a couple of reliable friends or family members to help gather everyone, clear communication is everything. When everyone knows where they need to be, the whole process moves faster and feels more organized.
A highlight reel is typically filmed over about 8 hours (depending on your wedding timeline) and covers all the major moments—getting ready, first looks, the ceremony, first dances, cake cutting, and other key events. This footage is then condensed into a 5-10 minute video that lets you relive the best parts of your day.
Full edit or full coverage focuses on creating a complete, real-time edit of your ceremony (and sometimes other events). Your videographer will use multiple cameras to capture every angle, then edit it together to look like the kind of event coverage you might see on TV. It’s longer, more detailed, and perfect if you want a full record of the moment.
These are short, fast-paced clips (usually around 30 seconds each) designed for platforms like Instagram or TikTok. They’re similar to a highlight reel but much shorter, featuring quick moments like your first kiss, walking down the aisle, dancing, getting ready, and more.
Every videography company handles music a little differently, but the process usually works like this: your videographer will send you a few song options they think fit the vibe of your wedding. If none of those feel right, they’ll share links to the licensed music libraries they use so you and your partner can browse and choose your own.
Wedding videographers are required to use music they have legal permission to include, which means they must pay for licenses. Because of this, most companies can’t use extremely popular songs, since licensing those hits is very expensive. Instead, they rely on high-quality, cinematic, fully licensed music that keeps your video beautiful and compliant.
A lot of couples worry about feeling awkward on camera, but the good news is that your videographer will guide you more than you might expect. Most of the day is captured candidly (your reactions, interactions, and natural emotions) without you needing to “perform” at all.
During portrait time or special moments, they’ll give gentle direction to help you look your best, such as where to stand for lighting or how to move so the shot feels natural and effortless.
They also work closely with your photographer, so you aren’t being pulled in different directions. The goal is always the same: to keep you comfortable, relaxed, and focused on each other. You don’t need to know poses, angles, or anything technical—your videographer handles all of that. All you have to do is enjoy the moment, and they’ll take care of making it look like a movie.
Wedding videography is all about capturing the moments that matter most. By sharing surprises ahead of time, organizing your timeline, and communicating clearly, you give your videographer the tools to tell your story perfectly. Trust their expertise, enjoy the moment, and you’ll end up with a video that’s beautiful, personal, and unforgettable.
Working with a videographer like Neil Bloom of Future Memory Media can bring your wedding story to life in a way that feels true to you. Whether you’re looking for a highlight film, full coverage, or something more social-forward, thoughtful videography is a beautiful way to preserve your day.
For more tips and tricks, tune into the full episode of 52 ‘Til I Do on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.
Have more wedding stationary related questions? Send us a message at hello@marryment.com or get in touch on our social media—we love helping couples navigate this part of wedding planning! Be sure to get in contact with Neil too!
Photo Credit to JNA Visuals
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